
Lately, everyone I talk to, whether they’re friends, family, or strangers at the grocery store, feels overwhelmed. Like current events have hijacked their brain space. Plus, we all have our own personal stuff going on.
How do we balance it all? How do we make sense of anything?
I can only speak for myself, but writing is my go-to method for sorting through confusion and angst. Using both reflection and forward-thinking helps me figure things out. That’s why, today, I’m introducing Laurel’s Lists on Laurellit.com. (Try saying that three times fast.)
These lists aren’t about things I need to do or errands I should run. They’re abstract, meant to help me reflect on where I’ve been and find direction for where I want to go.
I’m going to share my lists with you. If they compel to make similar lists of your own, well–that would be awesome.
Today’s first list is “Alternative Lives I Could Lead.”
*disclaimer – I write fiction. This list in no way reflects reality.
#1: White House Correspondent.
When I was in 4th grade, I wanted to be a news reporter (in addition to being a Broadway diva. See below.) I’ve always been a political junkie. This last election cycle, I loved any segment by Katelyn Polantz. She’s smart, quirky, and seems to relish getting the inside scoop. I’d love to de-age myself twenty years and be her.
#2: Broadway Diva
This was my life goal when I was a kid. I even majored in theater. However, my singing voice is not Broadway-Diva compatible. It’s a shame, because I have the desire to belt out songs like “I Dreamed a Dream” or “Don’t Cry for Me Argentina,” but it was never to be.
#3: Instagram Travel Influencer
You might wonder why this isn’t at the top of my list, as surely it’s the most feasible? Nah. I’m a Gen X gal who arrived way too late at the social media party. I just don’t have a knack for it. However, the fantasy of travelling to exotic locations, snapping selfies of myself looking fabulous, and posting them for my millions of followers is a lot of fun.
#4: Icelandic Astronomer
I’d have a cabin with this fabulous balcony, full of telescopes and overlooking my private hot springs pool. By day, I’d analyze my discoveries, and by night, I’d stargaze (taking breaks to soak in the hot springs.) Too bad I understand nothing about astronomy. It’s not how my brain functions.
#5: Mermaid
I’ve been snorkeling a couple of times. As I swam and took in all the sea life, I thought, “This is how I’m meant to be.” Also, I’m assuming that if I was a mermaid, I’d automatically have gorgeous hair, like Ariel. And I’ve always wanted gorgeous hair.
So, that’s my “Alternative Lives” list. What kind of of lives do you wish to lead? I’d love to hear about it!
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